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Involve
the children. If possible take them with you when you go house
hunting. Do
some research. Get your children excited about where they're
going. Find out about the history and attractions of the area you
are going to. Allow
them to give you ideas of how they will want their new rooms to be
decorated. Make time to visit favourite places and people before
you go. Give
them a small address book and encourage them to exchange addresses
and phone numbers with their friends. Extend invitations to their
friends to come and stay once you are settled in your new house. Caution
your kids if you are moving to a radically different environment,
such as moving from the city to the country or vice-versa. The
more they know what to expect the more confident and optimistic
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Moving
Treats - Pack a few of your children's favourite toys, books and
snacks to enjoy during the move. Safety
First - If the kids are to play or roam around unattended for any time at
all, you must check both your current home, and on arrival, check your
new home for potential accident producers, such as loose steps,
builder's rubble, dangerous areas such as unfenced pools and
unlocked gates. Your new home can pose quite a risk because the
kids don't know or appreciate the dangers and risks of an
unfamiliar environment. Letting older kids go to the shops on
their own could mean their getting lost on day one. Time
Out - Don't try to get everything done the minute you arrive. As
soon as the major unpacking is done, take a break with the family.
Packing a picnic for this purpose before you leave is a great way
to unwind for a while with your kids. |
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Time
In - Spend as much time with your children as you can, and let
them tell you everything about their new school and friends. Some
children may not find it easy to begin with. Follow their progress
closely, and if you detect any concerns that do not fade away, do
not hesitate to visit their teacher. You
may find it a good idea to accompany them to school for the first
few days. Be
aware of the signs - Younger children may revert to baby
behaviour. Be reassuring rather than scolding and they should soon
revert to normal behaviour. Consult
your doctor if any unusual behaviour continues, such as loss of
appetite, insomnia, constipation, and advise your doctor that you
have recently moved house. |
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